go thru phases where they decide they want a husband...mate...ready to settle down...or just fed up with men and the BS. Thinking men are no good, too many baby mommas...blah,blah,blah...they'd rather be alone. During this phase some women even take a vow of celibacy. First let's get some things straight. Sex is a normal part of life. Even during economic hardship the sex toy industry hasn't been affected their sales remain high. Sex is a like a bag of Lays potato chips; you can not just have one.
Remember ladies when you started having sex? Did your mindset change? Better yet, think about your daughter or niece, the first thing said is, "She is having sex - I can tell because she's smelling herself" or something to that nature. Sex give young girls the grand illusion of being grown. Imagine what it does for a woman!
Think about this. Celibacy means an unmarried person who has taken a religious vow of chastity or abstaining from sexual intercourse. It does not state abstaining or no sexual intercourse with a person. So for you ladies that keep a toy in the nightstand by the bed or under your mattress, because you are the driving force behind that stick doesn't mean you are practicing celibacy.
I'm not saying it's good to sleep around, but women desire sex just like men. Women, stop over analyzing all things and take them at face value. Every man you meet or deal with IS NOT MARRIAGE MATERIAL. Some are good for sex and sex only. It is..what it is. A man will date a woman for years and not marry her. The woman can be good to him, take care of him, may even have children by him but he will not marry her. Why? Because most men realize and accept upfront that this woman is not marriage material for him, therefore he will not ask her to marry him.
Suggestion, get a "FRIEND" (for releasing), enjoy the moment, take life one day at a time and do you. Forcing things will only frustate you.
Lutishia Lovely latest release "A Preacher's Passion" tells about Passion Perkins celibacy of five long years, she’s ready, willing, and able to end her drought. But she’s also determined to hold out for Mr. Right...a man her friends say doesn’t exist—until Lavon Chapman walks into her life: a powerful man who has come to the community to film an inspirational DVD about Passion’s minister, Reverend Stanley Lee, and his fiery wife, Carla Lee. But Lavon is only in town for eight weeks...
Passion is now on a mission to make Lavon her husband and to end her celibacy...and not necessarily in that order. But she’s not the only one. It seems Reverend Lee, though a master in the pulpit is a dud between the sheets, so Carla Lee has Lavon in her sights—and is determined to end up on top. Before long, other members of the church community are entangled in scandals of their own, and while some are getting busy in service to the Lord, others are just simply getting busy...
ISBN# 978-0-7582-2941-0
For more works by Lutishia Lovely, http://www.lutishialovely.com/
Check out her interview with The Risque Cafe, Sunday, June 26, from 5-6pm central. Call in to discussion the book, this weeks topic or just say Hi!
