"Did I get married too soon?"

Each person has to look at their own individual situation. For example, if you are unemployed, in debt, and barely making it; You maybe getting married out of necessity. I'm not saying this is good but let's be for real, this happens everyday. Especially with women. Men are progressively jumping on this bandwagon though.

Or ladies, when you think your biological clock is ticking. You are running out of time (so you think), at this point you are ready to get married to whoever...blind, cripple, or crazy. As long as he has a pulse and a job.

"Did I get married too soon?" Most people will not ask this question until after they get the after affects.
"He don't pick up after himself." (You thought it was cute when you were dating him. "He depends on me for everything." )

"She's wants me to stay at home with her all the time." (She was trying to keep up with you before then, but your ego lead you to believe you had it going on. She can't get enough of you.)

"She lets her mom and friends run her household." (You were so accommodating and wanted everyone to like you. She is so lucky to have a man like you.)

"He wants to go out with the boys all the time." (You were okay with this while dating because you wanted him to marry you. You were okay with everything he did... never complained or nagged)

"You can't wear that, are you trying to get another man?" (She was wearing the same type of clothes when you met her as she is wearing now. You thought those clothes looked good then. Oh, my bad..you still think the clothes look good....just like to look at them on other women)

Hell, it's getting on my nerves just thinking about it. Can't imagine living it. What happen to the trust? If you love, trust, and know that person before getting married, this can help make this question and answer a whole lot easier.

Communicate with your mate. In relationships, we ride things out like it's alright just to get along or please each other. That's not good for you or them. Be truthful and stay true to yourself.

Ladies and men...if you know your mate is a wh*re, decide if that's something you can deal with. If you can, don't sit up and b**tch about it. It is what it is. Just make sure you are getting what you need out of the relationship because 9 times out of 10; they are not going to change.

If the sex is that good, take it at face value.

"Did I get married too soon?" you tell me......