"Are you getting what you need out of your relationship?"

Do you find yourself asking yourself, “Why I’m I in the relationship?”, “Why do I put up with this sh**?”, “Does he/she appreciate me?” You may need to re-evaluate the relationship you are in. Many times in relationships, we are more interested in what everyone else has to say instead of our own happiness. I have been guilty of this myself. I stayed in a relationship where I was miserable. It had gotten to the point where we were not talking other than casual chat. I felt like I was giving more to the relationship than my mate because I was always the one that compromised. By the time we split up, I had given so much of myself to make the relationship work that I had lost myself along the way. I wasn’t being for filled. Instead it was more like being drained. We definitely were not on the same page. Our interpretations of what a relationship was about were definitely different.
Everyone is telling you to talk about. That doesn’t work because both parties have to be open about talking it thru. Not just one person. You don’t want to cheat. You are in a relationship but still alone. You keep lying to yourself, that things will get better. Are you getting what you need out of your relationship? Better question, how much is a piece of mind worth to you?